came across with the subject above while i was ‘hoppin’ from one parenting site to another.it was here,parentbloggers.com it came up. a lil’ excerpt from it
” It’s in honor of Mother’s Day and inspired by LightIris founder and dad Kevin who has been wearing a Preggo Suit all month long. Can he really actually be empathetic to what moms go through? And is being a mom just about the actual having of the kids? Or the raising of the kids?”
before i had Mia,honestly,i can’t imagine myself as a mother.i remembered during my pregnancy,i kept asking myself,would i make a great mommy? what does it take to be one?does taking care and nurturing her is enough?is there any manual to be a Mother? but one thing for sure,it is a HUGE responsibility.
Mothers come in all shapes,colors and sizes.But one common thing we share,a mother’s love for their child,is beyond words.its comes from heart and soul.
It’s not only the act of giving birth,ones qualify to be a mother.It’s more than that.I believe,the label ‘Mother’ is for someone who puts her kids wellbeing first before herself,even if it involves her dear life.
No matter how grown up our kids will be,mothers will always,always be there for em’,for better, or for worse, for richer or poorer; in sickness or in health,till death do us apart.sound cliche i knw.and thats the fact and the truth.
I recall one scene from my fav.drama,(whatelse GA!!),where this lady was dignosed with cancer(or was it a brain tumor?i forgot!).she kept secret frm her daughter about her serious illness,and dr. karev was prety upset about the lie.however,in the end,she finally did told her daughter that she’s dying soon.her reasonbeing not telling her daughter earlier was becoz she didnt want her to be hurt and sad. anyhow,the conversation goes something like this:..
“honey,its doesnt matter which dance class you go,what subject you plan to take,or which dress you’ll wear to the prom,..blablablal..,because at the end of the day,what’s important is…that you are Happy.that’s all that matter.i do not want you be to sad all the time when im gone.i want you to remember me ..and just be happy”
so what makes Me a mom? the love,the nurture,the sharing,the risk,the burden,on everything and anything just for her happiness.
Mothers are everywhere. And it is that special love for a child that makes you a mother. I confess here,being a mom,is the greatest thing in the world.
So,have u wish your mother,Happy Mothers Day?well,you should,But if u have,well done!
Ok peeps,Have a nice day ahead.
p/s:on another note,im thinking of selling my allerhand diaper bag?any taker?